At the Center for Neurological Intelligence®, individuals, couples, and leaders are supported in understanding what is happening within them so they can live, love, and lead with greater clarity, connection, and choice.
Many people who find their way here are thoughtful, capable, and motivated. From the outside, life may appear successful or functional. Yet internally, something feels unsettled-emotional loops repeat, stress feels constant, relationships feel strained, or a quiet sense of disconnection persists.
Using the framework of Neurological Intelligence®, this work helps make sense of how the nervous system formed meaning through lived experience-and how those patterns continue to shape thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and relationships today.
Most of us were never taught how our nervous system works.
But no one taught us how early experiences shape emotional meaning, relational patterns, or our sense of self. No one explained why we react the way we do, why certain situations feel overwhelming, or why familiar conflicts repeat even when we "know better."
Neurological Intelligence® offers a grounded, compassionate approach to understanding your inner world-without labels, urgency, or pressure to become someone else.
As awareness grows, the nervous system begins to soften. Old protective strategies no longer need to run automatically. With practice, new responses become available-responses rooted in presence rather than reactivity.
This work is for people from many walks of life who are seeking greater clarity, stability, and connection.
Individuals often seek this work when they are navigating stress, anxiety, life transitions, relationship challenges, or unresolved emotional patterns. Some feel overwhelmed or emotionally reactive. Others feel shut down, disconnected, or stuck in internal conflict.
Many are highly functional on the outside while quietly struggling within.
This work supports individuals who want to understand their nervous system, reduce internal tension, and develop healthier relationships with themselves and others.
Men, in particular, often find this work helpful when they want to move beyond internal protection patterns and connect in more authentic, grounded, and emotionally present ways-without sacrificing strength or integrity.
Couples often arrive feeling caught in repeating cycles of conflict, misunderstanding, or emotional distance. Conversations escalate quickly or go nowhere. Trust and safety feel fragile. Both partners may care deeply, yet feel unsure how to stop hurting one another.
Rather than focusing on who is right or wrong, this work helps couples understand what is happening within each nervous system during moments of stress. When this becomes visible, blame softens, defensiveness decreases, and curiosity returns.
Couples learn how to communicate with respect, understand individual and shared needs, and rebuild safety in ways that strengthen both the relationship and the individuals within it.
Many leaders carry significant responsibility and invisible pressure. Decision-making never truly turns off. The nervous system remains engaged long after the workday ends.
This work supports executives and leaders who want to manage pressure more effectively, lead with clarity, and show up at home as partners or parents-not just as the boss.
Leadership here is not treated as a performance skill, but as an internal state shaped by the nervous system. When that system is supported, leadership becomes more sustainable, grounded, and fulfilling. You do not need to fit a category to belong here. If something inside you is seeking understanding, you are welcome.
My role is not to tell you who to be. It is to help you see what is already happening within you-with clarity, compassion, and practical guidance.
This work blends neuroscience, mindful awareness, and lived experience. Sessions are collaborative and paced with care, respecting the intelligence of your nervous system.
Change does not happen through willpower alone. It happens when awareness becomes embodied.
At the Center for Neurological Intelligence®, the focus goes beyond traditional coaching by helping clients understand the neurological patterns shaping their inner and outer lives.
Founded by author and Neurological Life Coach Glenn S. Cohen, this approach integrates neuroscience, emotional awareness, and lived experience to support meaningful and lasting change.
Through individual sessions, couples work, leadership support, workshops, and the Neurological Intelligence® book series, people are guided in recognizing patterns that once served a purpose but may now limit growth or create unnecessary suffering.
This is not about erasing the past. It is about understanding it-so it no longer runs the present.
Neurological Intelligence® is the ability to understand how your nervous system forms meaning and how that meaning shapes perception, emotion, behavior, and relationships-moment by moment.
Our nervous systems are shaped through experience. Over time, emotional learning becomes belief. Belief becomes protection. Protection becomes pattern. When these patterns remain unconscious, they tend to repeat. When they become visible, choice returns.
Neurological Intelligence® does not teach control. It teaches cooperation with your inner system. Through awareness, patterns can soften, integrate, and transform in ways that support greater clarity, balance, and freedom.
At its heart is a simple truth:
I did not set out to create a methodology. I set out to understand myself.
Like many people, my early life shaped emotional and relational patterns long before I had language for them. I searched for answers through psychology, spirituality, leadership training, and personal growth. Each offered insight, but none fully explained how the nervous system stores meaning-or how early experiences quietly shape our lives.
Over time, Neurological Intelligence® emerged not as a theory, but as a map.
My work is shaped by both professional training and lived experience. I meet people with respect, humility, and care. I also hold people accountable and gently challenge the stories that keep them from living fully.
When the inner world becomes visible, the outer world becomes changeable. If you are here, you are not broken. Something within you is asking to be heard.
Personal guidance to support emotional clarity, healing, and growth.
A safe, supportive space to understand relationship patterns and rebuild connection.
Teachings and reflections to explore at your own pace.
Grounded guidance for those leading others while carrying significant responsibility.
As gas prices are on the rise, San Jose Mayor Matt Mahan, who is running for governor of California, called on Sacramento to temporarily suspend the state’s gas tax.According to AAA, the average price for a gallon of gas in California is $5.42, which is significantly higher than the national average of $3.63.UC Berkeley professor Severin Borenstein said typically, gas prices in California are about a dollar and a half higher than the rest of the country.“About a dollar of that is due to the higher taxes we ha...
As gas prices are on the rise, San Jose Mayor Matt Mahan, who is running for governor of California, called on Sacramento to temporarily suspend the state’s gas tax.
According to AAA, the average price for a gallon of gas in California is $5.42, which is significantly higher than the national average of $3.63.
UC Berkeley professor Severin Borenstein said typically, gas prices in California are about a dollar and a half higher than the rest of the country.
“About a dollar of that is due to the higher taxes we have, the environmental fees we have, and the fact that we use a cleaner burning gasoline, which has helped clean up air quality quite a bit in California,” he said.
Because of this, San Jose Mayor Matt Mahan announced he called on Sacramento to temporarily suspend the state’s gas taxes.
“I’m calling on our state leaders to temporarily suspend our gas tax and provide relief to those who need it most,” Mahan said.
However, Governor Gavin Newsom said pumping the brakes on the gas tax won't necessarily bring down prices: his office said in a statement earlier this week, saying that, “Gas taxes are fixed costs that don’t fluctuate with the market and have nothing to do with the price spikes that Americans are experiencing this week.”
But as the war with Iran goes on, drivers across the Bay Area are still seeing an increase at the pump.
And it could get even worse.
“If the conflict drags on and we start to deplete the inventories we’re using now, it's possible that prices could spike quite a bit higher,” Borenstein said.
Borenstein said it is possible for gas to reach $7 a gallon, and even, NBC Bay Area crews saw a gas station on Sand Hill in Menlo Park where gas already reached that price; ultimately, Borenstein notes much of it depends on the war, and there is a lot of uncertainty with that.
He recommended paying attention to different gas prices across different areas and shop around.
San Jose Mayor Matt Mahan aims to stand out from the crowded field of California governor candidates with a statewide policy plan to speed up housing production. Advocates say there’s plenty to like — even if certain facets of the plan could cut funding to local public services.Mahan unveiled his 15-point plan March 5 in Altadena, where the fifth deadliest and second most destructive wildfire in state history razed more than 9,000 buildings in Los Angeles County last year. Th...
San Jose Mayor Matt Mahan aims to stand out from the crowded field of California governor candidates with a statewide policy plan to speed up housing production. Advocates say there’s plenty to like — even if certain facets of the plan could cut funding to local public services.
Mahan unveiled his 15-point plan March 5 in Altadena, where the fifth deadliest and second most destructive wildfire in state history razed more than 9,000 buildings in Los Angeles County last year. The proposals include a two-year tax holiday on local fees for new housing developments and a 30-day limit on permit processing. Mahan proposes fast-tracking approvals for new accessory dwelling units, or ADUs, and factories making modular homes. He also wants to revise state building codes and develop a plan to curtail lawsuits used to block projects.
“His plan is bold, comprehensive and grounded in real-world experience, not easy sound bites,” Adrian Rafizadeh, spokesperson for Mahan’s campaign, told San José Spotlight. “It drives down costs by cutting the taxes, regulations and lawsuits that make projects more expensive. It gets more value for every taxpayer dollar by putting housing at the center of California’s industrial strategy. And it holds every community and every level of government accountable for results.”
Kelly Snider, a land use consultant and urban planning professor at San Jose State University, said it’s the most detailed housing plan she’s seen from this year’s governor candidates.
“I think it’s a good platform, and there is a sufficient amount of detail so far to believe him,” Snider told San José Spotlight. “I think it’s credible.”
Yet there are elements in the proposal where Snider anticipates pushback — namely, the two-year tax holiday. Mahan has bemoaned California’s housing construction fees as the highest in the nation and vows to prevent local governments from imposing exorbitant sales or transfer taxes on new infill housing, such as the voter-approved “mansion tax” — or Measure ULA — in Los Angeles.
“It’s a good idea and it’s the kind of centralization of state authority that a governor could probably implement in a four-year term, but it is going to be so unpopular with almost every jurisdiction in California because they have no other source of revenue to pay for things like building permits or housing elements, which are required by the state,” Snider said. “These unfunded mandates are going to be literally impossible for most cities in California to abide with.”
South Bay housing advocate Alex Shoor shares that concern.
“When you cut fees, and you don’t replace that revenue with something else, you’re cutting off your nose to spite your face,” Shoor told San José Spotlight. “You need that revenue to provide city services and have to make sure it can be replaced. It can be a gamble.”
In San Jose, the Parks, Recreation and Neighborhood Services Department is struggling with a massive $550 million maintenance and infrastructure backlog, which officials have blamed on developer fee cuts. Officials said they’re studying how the department can restructure the funding loss as the city tackles a larger $56 million budget deficit.
“We absolutely need more housing, but adding more residents while cutting the services that protect and serve those residents is a recipe for disaster,” John Tucker, a spokesperson for AFSCME Local 101, the union representing public employees across Santa Clara County, told San José Spotlight. “The reality is that developers won’t ‘pass those savings onto buyers.’ They’ll sell at the market rate and pocket the difference. It’s just corporate handouts disguised as a housing plan.”
In other areas, Shoor said Mahan’s plan has a lot to like.
“This is a laundry list of things that we have been talking about for a long time and have been working on and have already had some achievements on,” Shoor said. “I don’t think anything here is breaking radically new ground, and yet it is super important ground.”
Shoor likes the elements of Mahan’s plan that emphasize affordability. One proposal has the state purchasing apartment buildings to maintain low- and middle-income rental rates.
“I think time will determine whether Matt Mahan is as unabashedly pro-housing as he purports to be,” Shoor said. “But he has always been good about measuring outcomes and making sure government resources are spent efficiently. I think that’s always been his strong point, and I think the elements of the plan that talk about that are going to be really important.”
Another prong of Mahan’s plan includes changing state building codes to make them more affordable to property owners. Mahan said the costs of meeting new building codes every year, including those which are decades old, have skyrocketed.
“I think there is generally pretty popular support for updating and streamlining state building codes and eliminating the patchwork of county fire authorities and city public works authorities that have to get involved, but that will be unpopular, specifically with the unions,” Snider said.
Though Snider points out key signs of optimism that unions are becoming more receptive to lower regulatory hurdles. For instance, the California Conference of Carpenters was a key partner to the state’s biggest legislative effort in years to roll back California’s landmark environmental review law, known as CEQA, and exempt urban apartment projects.
There’s one idea Snider wanted to see that isn’t in Mahan’s plan. While it calls for a two-year tax holiday to support ADU construction and private sector financing partnerships, it doesn’t call for a government-backed, standardized funding mechanism for single-family homeowners to build secondary homes on their property. For example, Snider is interested in new Fannie Mae & Freddie Mac government-guaranteed loans for this purpose.
“We need something that really gets the stamp of approval from all of the insurers, brokers and mortgage lenders and third-party markets and also becomes available to typical homeowners in California,” Snider said. “If there was some way to unlock the equity of someone’s single-family home while they were still living there, that would be a great funding source to build these second units the state needs.”
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A group of Bay Area billionaires has poured $35 million into a campaign to block a proposed California wealth tax, backing three ballot initiatives designed to kill or weaken the measure.The billionaires have put $35 million into a new political action committee called Building a Better California that is gathering signatures to put on the November ballot three counter-initiatives targeting the proposed California Billionaire Tax Act.The union-created tax proposal would impose a one-time “emergency tax&rd...
A group of Bay Area billionaires has poured $35 million into a campaign to block a proposed California wealth tax, backing three ballot initiatives designed to kill or weaken the measure.
The billionaires have put $35 million into a new political action committee called Building a Better California that is gathering signatures to put on the November ballot three counter-initiatives targeting the proposed California Billionaire Tax Act.
The union-created tax proposal would impose a one-time “emergency tax” of 5% on the net worth of California residents holding more than $1 billion in wealth.
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“Of course they’re going to oppose this,” said Jack Citrin, emeritus professor of political science at UC Berkeley, who dismissed the idea that billionaires are so loaded they shouldn’t care about the initiative’s proposed 5% hit on net worth. “Some of these billionaires have pledged to give half or all to charity. They want to control what they do. They want to live a particular lifestyle. They want to give money to their heirs.”
Building a Better California declined to comment on the billionaire tax proposal and their initiatives. The Service Employees International Union–United Healthcare Workers West, which put forward the initiative, on Friday decried Building a Better California’s “expensive and wasteful tactics.”
The union argues that the levy would help fill a hole in the state budget made by federal funding cuts. But it faces prominent foes including Gov. Gavin Newsom and San Jose Mayor Matt Mahan, who have expressed fears it will drive billionaires out of California, depriving the state of revenue, and stifling innovation.
Google co-founder Sergey Brin, the committee’s largest donor, has already left California. State records show the former Los Altos resident now lives in Nevada.
Media reports indicate Brin recently bought a $42 million mansion on the Nevada side of Lake Tahoe. Brin, worth $231 billion according to Forbes’ real-time billionaires rankings, put $20 million into Building a Better California, state records show.
Adding $2 million each to the committee were a who’s-who of Bay Area tycoons: former Google CEO Eric Schmidt of Atherton, who’s worth $34.8 billion; Kleiner Perkins chairman John Doerr of Woodside, who’s worth $19.4 billion; Stripe CEO Patrick Collison of San Francisco, who’s worth $17.5 billion; Ripple executive chairman Chris Larsen of San Francisco, who’s worth $12.3 billion; Sequoia Capital partner Michael Moritz, who’s worth $7.1 billion; and DoorDash CEO Tony Xu of San Francisco, who’s worth $1.6 billion.
Max Levchin of San Francisco, CEO of Affirm and worth $1.4 billion, threw in $1 million. Beverly Hills water and pomegranate magnate Stewart Resnick, co-owner of the Wonderful Company and worth $5.4 billion, added $2 million.
The group is backing three ballot initiatives — one designed to block the billionaire tax outright and two that could undercut it.
The first, titled the Retirement and Personal Savings Protection Act, would prohibit new state personal property taxes. If both that measure and the billionaire tax passed, the one receiving the most votes would take effect under state law, effectively canceling out the other, said Shaun Bowler, a political science professor at UC Riverside.
The other two initiatives could complicate or undermine the tax if voters approved it.
One proposal, called the Improving Transparency, Effectiveness & Efficiency in California Government Act, would require audits of programs funded by new state special taxes.
Another, titled the Protect Schools and Taxpayers Act, would require new taxes to comply with existing school-funding rules. That requirement could send a large chunk of the billionaire tax’s projected $100 billion revenue to schools instead of the health care programs the union hopes to fund.
Taken together, the measures appear to be “spoiler propositions” meant to weaken the tax or force legal challenges if voters approve it, Bowler said.
“It’s a clever strategy if you’ve got lots of money,” he said. “Money is no object here so you can get a wider range of strategies.”
While the California Secretary of State identifies Building a Better California as a top funder for five initiatives, only three are aimed at this fall’s election, said ballot-campaign strategist Brandon Castillo, president of Sacramento-based BCFS Public Affairs.
Given the multimillion-dollar cost of gathering enough signatures to qualify a measure for the ballot, launching multiple initiatives to counter a single proposal is uncommon, Bowler said.
In order to qualify for the November ballot, the three billionaire-backed measures and the billionaire tax initiative must each collect at least 874,641 signatures from registered California voters. The union’s petition drive must submit signatures by June 24, while Building a Better California has until Aug. 10.
The battle over the billionaire tax initiative is already playing out at grocery stores, farmers markets, libraries and post offices across the state, where clipboard-wielding signature gatherers collect a bounty for each valid signature they turn in.
Experts say the size of that bounty often determines which petitions get promoted most aggressively.
“They’re going to lead with the measures that are paying them more,” said ballot-campaign strategist Castillo.
As of Thursday, on two of the three billionaire-backed petitions, signature gatherers were earning more per signature than those circulating the billionaire tax proposal, according to data from BCFS.
The initiatives banning new personal property taxes and requiring audits of tax-funded programs typically pay about $15 per signature — roughly 25% more than the $12 paid for signatures supporting the billionaire tax.
Resources, Castillo said, “don’t seem to be an issue” for Building a Better California.
That likely means the group’s heavy spending on signature gathering could foreshadow major advertising campaigns if the billionaire tax reaches the ballot, Bowler said.
“These guys have got more money than you can even conceive of,” he said. “Twenty million in advertising here, or $30 million there, it doesn’t mean anything to them.”
A survey of 1,220 randomly selected California registered voters conducted by UC Berkeley’s Citrin Center and Politico from Feb. 25 to March 3 found that 50% supported the billionaire tax and 28% opposed it.
But Citrin, for whom the center is named, noted that when respondents were asked about potential effects — including whether it could drive wealthy residents or businesses out of the state — majorities expressed concern.
An advertising campaign highlighting those issues could “whittle away some support” for the proposal, he said.
For now, however, the fight is unfolding on sidewalks and storefronts across California as petition sheets fill with signatures.
“We’ll see what happens,” Citrin said, “when the ads start bombarding people.”
The inaugural FREE South Bay Camp & School Fair is TODAY, Mar. 14, sponsored by Stanford Medicine Children's Health in San Jose at Lynbrook High School Field House, 1280 Johnson Ave. with over 50 ...
The inaugural FREE South Bay Camp & School Fair is TODAY, Mar. 14, sponsored by Stanford Medicine Children's Health in San Jose at Lynbrook High School Field House, 1280 Johnson Ave. with over 50 exhibitors.
The INDOOR Fair is open from 11am to 2pm with FREE admission and FREE parking.
The FREE Bay Area Camp & School Fairs sponsored by provide families with a one-stop shopping experience as they plan their spring break and summer activities. There is a wide variety of schools and camps for children, teens and families including preschools, day camps, overnight, performing arts, S.T.E.M. & S.T.E.A.M. programs, scouts and sports. Camps from around California and the nation take part.
Here are the free 2026 Bay Area Camp & School Fairs co-hosted by Bay Area Festivals and ActivityHero:
Each Camp Fair is indoors and open from 11am to 2pm with free admission and ample free parking.
Bay Area Camp Fairs provide families with a one-stop shopping experience as they plan their spring break and summer activities. There is a wide variety of schools and camps for children, teens and families including preschools, day camps, overnight, performing arts, S.T.E.M. & S.T.E.A.M. programs, scouts and sports. Camps from around California and the nation take part.
The first 200 families each day receive a free Camp Backpack courtesy of Stanford Medicine Children's Health.
There is a free raffle drawing for camps and KidFest tickets. Anyone bringing cans of food donation for the Monument Crisis Center will receive an extra raffle ticket for each can.
Stanford Medicine Children's Health hosts a free craft activity at each Fair.
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Julia Bonaguidi scored five goals and freshman Despoina Drakatou continued her remarkable freshman season with four goals, five assists and two steals as the No. 4 California women's water polo team rolled past No. 17 San José State 22-10 on Saturday at Spieker Aquatics Complex.Senior Abbi Magee added four goals and two assists for the Golden Bears (10-3), including her 100th career goal in the first quarter. Junior Feline Voordouw also had four goals for Cal.Bonaguidi netted four goals in the first quarter an...
Julia Bonaguidi scored five goals and freshman Despoina Drakatou continued her remarkable freshman season with four goals, five assists and two steals as the No. 4 California women's water polo team rolled past No. 17 San José State 22-10 on Saturday at Spieker Aquatics Complex.
Senior Abbi Magee added four goals and two assists for the Golden Bears (10-3), including her 100th career goal in the first quarter. Junior Feline Voordouw also had four goals for Cal.
Bonaguidi netted four goals in the first quarter and Magee scored three to combine for all of the Bears' scoring in the first quarter and a 7-4 lead. Cal gradually pulled away before holding San Jose State scoreless in the fourth quarter to win going away.
The Bears had 10 different players score goals overall.
Cal remains home next weekend when it hosts No. 6 Hawai'i on Sunday at 1 p.m. PT.
No. 4 California 22, No. 17 San Jose State 10 SJSU 4 2 4 0 – 10 Cal 7 5 5 5 – 22 SJSU Goals: Darcy Spark 6, Nynke Willemsen, Makenzy Clark, Bridget Cranley, Rose Jensen. Cal Goals: Julia Bonaguidi 5, Feline Voordouw 4, Abbi Magee 4, Holly Dunn 2, Despoina Drakatou 2, Julianne Snyder, Nieve Courtney, Eszter Varro, Reece Heisel, Maria Bogachenko. SJSU Saves: Tatianna Raffin 4. Cal Saves: Talia Fonseca 3,
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